Find or Take

‘Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the road is easy that leads to destruction, and there are many who take it. For the gate is narrow and the road is hard that leads to life, and there are few who find it.Matthew 7:13-14

This isn’t so much playing as just noticing. There are many who take the road to destruction, but few who find the road to life. Surely such a swapping of verbs can’t be an accident. But what does it mean? Is the difficulty finding the right road, or is it actually taking it? Or both?